GirlTip #9: The Power of Secrets
Why do we tell secrets? Why do we want to know them? Getting in on a secret can make us feel loved & important. Telling one lets us feel special and powerful. Sharing secrets can be like a drug, a quick rush of connectedness to distract us from the insecurity we all feel. Lately, I’ve been trying to get clear on why I’m dishing: is it for a good reason, or because I need a “buzz?” What do you think?